There is a strong phrase one brother uses which lends itself well to the biblical phrase
‘Examine yourselves’
This brother’s phrase is
“Tell me where I’ve gone wrong.”
In our daily examining ourselves to see, we can also see one additional helpful principal to be true in regard to all matters of Faith & Reason, Life & Evangel, Heart & Head
That is this
There are only two general areas in which we could ever go wrong aside from action itself, that is aside from in errors of living itself.
In regard to Heart & Head, Life & Evangel, Faith & Reason, the only two ways we can ever go wrong are:
- Logic, reason or doctrinal errors
Or
- Errors in regard to love, that is in regard to charity or love, more specifically in regard to phileo or agape.
And in this second category remain the more subtle pitfalls.
All can be right in Logic, that is in Reason, perhaps even in Faith & Doctrine, while yet in that area of life, that is in regard to brotherly love, kindness, indeed charity, love, in agape, we could yet find ourselves far adrift.
LORD JESUS,
Teach us to love even as You love.
Charity suffers long and is kind. She is not proud. She is not rude. She is not self- seeking. She vaunteth not herself. Neither does she behave herself unseemly.
And so we ask You, LORD
Show me my sinful ways
“Tell me where I’ve gone wrong.”
Amen.
When the answer does not involve Reason or Logic, it is always this
“You have erred in love.”
In brotherly kindness, charity & agape love
Selah.

